[00:00.000] 作曲 : Laurie Anderson
[00:00.244] The thing that's forbidden
 by the Tibetan Book of the Dead
 is crying.
[00:08.418] Crying is not allowed. 
because it's supposedly 
confusing to the dead
[00:14.022] and you don't want to summon them back,
[00:16.324] because they actually can't come back.
[00:19.888] So, no crying.
[00:26.417] When Lolabelle died, our teacher said,
[00:29.264] "Every time you think of her,
[00:31.234] give something away or do something kind."
[00:34.710] And I said,
"Then I’d be giving things away nonstop."
[00:40.635] And he said,
"So?"
[00:45.248] And it took me so long to figure it out,
[00:49.863] because death is so often about regrets
 or guilt.
[00:57.161] "
Why didn't I call her?
 Why didn't I say that?"
[01:00.497] It's more about you
 than the person who died.
[01:07.988] But finally I saw it -
[01:10.823] the connection between love and death
[01:21.069] and that the purpose of death
 is the release of love.